Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Pregnant teacher fights firing by Catholic school

An unwed, pregnant Catholic school teacher has been fired for failing to “convey the teachings of the Catholic faith by his or her words and actions.”

Oh please. If teachers were forced to not have sex until they were married, there wouldn't be many teachers!

Attorney Cassandra Stubbs made a very good point:
“The school used her pregnancy as a marker. How do they determine if male
employees engage in premarital sex?”

As the pregnant teacher, Michelle McCusker said,

“I don’t understand how a religion that prides itself on forgiving and on valuing life could terminate me because I’m pregnant and choosing to have this baby.”


Saturday, November 19, 2005

In Celebration Of Harry Potter

You are Harry Potter! You are brave and mischevious and
are very protective of your frends.


Which Harry Potter character are you?
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Speaking of Harry Potter, I'm going to see the new movie today! Oh boy oh boy oh boy!

Sunday, November 13, 2005

Four Memory Tricks

Nothing helps you get ahead quicker than a good memory. Whether you're trying to remember the name of the guy you just met, a state capital, or complex sets of business data, these simple tricks can help you improve your memory skills.

1. Start by chunking. According to psychologists, it's especially hard to make your brain recall long lists of separate pieces of information. To make it easier to remember a long list of almost anything, break the list into small and manageable groups, or "chunks."

For example, you might find it hard to remember all of the original 13 British colonies in the United States. But if you break them into small groups based on common traits, such as the region each colony belongs in, it's much easier. First, just concentrate on learning which colonies belong in which region. When you know each region, you know the whole set of 13.
Mid-Atlantic

Delaware
New York
New Jersey
Pennsylvania
Southern
Maryland
Virginia
North Carolina
South Carolina
Georgia
New England
Connecticut
Rhode Island
Massachusetts
New Hampshire

2. Use mnemonic devices. These are memory improvement techniques, and are sometimes quite elaborate. One common device uses words or abbreviations to compress lists of information into shorter bits that are easier to remember. Here are some common examples:

Names of the Great Lakes
H-O-M-E-S; Huron, Ontario, Michigan, Erie, Superior
Colors of the spectrum
R-o-y G. B-i-v; Red Orange Yellow Green Blue Indigo Violet
Order of operations in mathematics
Please Explain My Dull, Awful Subjects; Parentheses, Exponents, Multiplication/Division, Addition/Subtraction
Planets in the solar system
Many Vocal Enemies Make Jokes Squealing Under Nervous Pressure; Mercury, Venus, Earth, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto
Biology taxonomy
Kings Play Chess On Funny Green Squares; Kingdom, Phylum, Class, Order, Family, Genus, Species
Musical scale
Every Good Boy Does Fine; E, G, B, D, F

3. Link information to visual cues. Often it's easier to remember a place or an image and its characteristics, than it is to recall a set of unfamiliar pieces of information. To memorize the information, you can try taking an item from the list and associating it in your mind with a picture or place that you know well.

For example, let's say you need to memorize the presidents of the United States since World War II. You could associate each of the presidents with a place you know well, such as your front porch:
Eisenhower
Sitting on the steps
Kennedy
Knocking at the front door
Johnson
Swinging on a porch swing
Nixon
Standing at the mailbox
Ford
Ringing the doorbell
Carter
Sitting in a wicker chair
Reagan
Standing under the porch light
Bush (1st)
Standing on the right
Clinton
Sitting at a table
Bush (2nd)
Standing on the left

To reinforce this, you could draw a sketch of your porch, and note on it the location of each president. This technique is so powerful that you might find yourself thinking of the presidents the next time you go to your porch.

4. Read with a purpose. Many psychologists think that the best way to remember what you read is to follow the PQ4R method. PQ4R is a mnemonic device for Preview, Question, and four R's: Read, Reflect, Recite, Review.

If you are reading a chapter in your biology book, for example, you should start by skimming the whole chapter for an overview. Then create some questions to concentrate on while you study, such as "How does photosynthesis work?" Then read the chapter.

After you've finished, reflect--think about how the chapter has answered your questions. Recite the answers back to yourself, explaining the information in your own words. Finally, go back through the book, skimming again for the main points.

Sound like a lot of work? It may take longer than a quick skim, but it's also a great way to make sure you retain what you are reading, rather than just sitting in front of the book and turning pages.

Wednesday, November 09, 2005

This Is Totally Wrong

What color will your wedding dress be?
by Claylista
Name
LJ Username
Dream Husband
Where the wedding isLas Vegas
WhenAugust 6, 2034
Color of DressBlue
Quiz created with MemeGen!

If I have to wait until 2034, we've got some serious problems! And there is no way I'm getting married in Vegas! And I'm definitely having a white dress!

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

What Is Wrong With Today's Teachers?

I feel so disgusted whenever I read about a teacher having sex with an under-age student. I don't know of any students that I would even remotely think about having sex with!

And yet, a few teachers keep doing it.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Solving Four Mysteries of Manhood

By Kimberly Williams-Paisley

As my husband, country-music artist Brad Paisley, whizzed past the third gas station in a row on a dark Nashville night, trying to find the new restaurant we wanted to try, I became convinced that there really are fundamental differences in the way men and women live their day-to-day lives. Even though I had repeatedly asked Brad to stop and get directions, he refused. Why wouldn't he stop? It makes perfect sense to do so -- it would save time, gasoline and frustration. Then it dawned on me that if I could just figure out the underlying cause of men's most puzzling habits, I could learn how to better understand my strange and wonderful husband.

"It's just up here," Brad said, his eyes searching the road. And then he made another U-turn. Why won't guys ever admit that they don't know where they are -- or where they're going?

This comes down to men always wanting to be in control. They hate to admit when they're not. I also suspect Brad enjoys adventure more than any kind of schedule I may be trying to keep him to, and he doesn't mind just a hint of dark-night danger.

How is a wife to deal? First, learn to appreciate the subtext. I enjoy the boy in Brad who doesn't mind a little exploration, and I love the man who wants to be in charge. But also be practical. I now surreptitiously tuck a map into my bag and sneak peeks at it when Brad's driving trips leave us going in circles. While I don't want to offend his male ego, I do want to end up at our destination sooner rather than later.

Once we finally get to a restaurant and sit down, Brad likes to have free rein of the table. His elbows often invade my elbow space, and he sometimes acts as though there is a competition going on between the food on my plate and the food on his plate (and it has nothing to do with taste). This could also be about men craving competition even when there is no sport involved. Brad often samples what's on my plate before even looking at what's on his. Only after he's made an assessment of my choice does he try his own. Usually, he continues to eat from both our plates during the course of the meal. It's as if he wants to make sure there's nothing he's missing out on. My friend Laura suggests this is because guys are never truly satisfied with what they have. Or perhaps it's a way to get the lay of the land (again, without a map). This is a different kind of control.

When my husband first started stealing my food, I tried to eat faster so I could get my fill before he'd finished a good portion of it. Occasionally, I ordered things I knew he didn't like -- extra veggies, tofu. But then he started liking those things. Now I just eat what I can off his plate (and I find it does sometimes mysteriously taste better when it's not my own dish). Oftentimes Brad isn't even aware he's consuming my meal until I point it out to him. Ultimately, I try to remember to be thankful, whenever possible, that Brad and I are just getting to have dinner together.

Then we go home and watch a little television before bed. Just like his aversion to maps and directions in the car, my husband strongly rejects the TV Guide at home. And just like his tendency in restaurants, Brad loves to have control over that remote. The weird part is that he can't stay on a channel for more than about five seconds. Even when he finds something he likes, he usually just keeps going anyway. Brad loves that every channel has something different, and he doesn't want to miss anything, so he tries to see them all. It's a television adventure. Channel surfing is a way of keeping an eye on things and staying in the driver's seat, so to speak. Brad stares at that bright, flickering box and points that remote like a caveman might have stared at the fire long ago and poked at it with a stick. Is this trait related to a type of stress release that has been passed on to men for thousands of years?

"Yeah," Brad grunted when I recently asked him.

One of my girlfriends hides the remote from her husband occasionally, declaring it "misplaced." But that technique is only good for a short-term fix, because your husband will inevitably find it and/or buy a more complicated, multi-button one, and you'll be back where you started.
Brad and I have finally negotiated a treaty. We take nightly turns controlling the channel changer -- and the pace at which it's used.

It's usually just as we're working the television situation out, snuggling under the blanket and happily digesting our meals, that somewhere, deep down, some other male "talent" suddenly erupts. I am talking about the sort of noises that used to make for some high-stakes contests in the school playground. Or perhaps your man is a little more discreet: My friend's husband loves to blame his strange noises on various floorboards in their old house. Who knew, she says, those floorboards smelled so funky?

First, let your man know that if he's gonna let it fly, you're probably not going to find it sexy. Personally, a serious blast can shut me down for the night. Second, if those poor floorboards just can't help themselves -- and I understand sometimes they can't -- tell your husband to use the floorboards in the other room (and light a match, to help quell the essence).

I used to often scratch my head over these male habits, pondering why they seem so foreign to me. Now I've finally realized they're actually a way for a man to be king of the road, lord of the larder, duke of the tube and ruler of the airwaves. And I respect that. Don't buy my theory? Then simply celebrate the mystery.

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

What A Great Idea

Using little more than an iPod and a school computer, teacher Camilla Gagliolo and her students have been making podcasts -- online radio shows that can be downloaded to an iPod or other portable MP3 player.

"It just makes so much sense. They are so drawn to this technology. They are so excited by it. They're comfortable with it," said Gagliolo, the school's technology coordinator.

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Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Time For More Couch-Jumping

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes are reportedly execting their first child together.

Read the whole article for yourself.

Wednesday, September 28, 2005

Jennifer Garner Is Having A Girl


Looks like Jennifer Garner accidentally let it slip on The Tonight Show that she and husband Ben Affleck are expecting a girl, due around Christmas-time.

“You can just start to feel really pregnant. Like you are the hugest person on the face of the planet. ... And then I felt just bigger and bigger like she ...”

Monday, September 26, 2005

Any Truth To This?

I thought this was a bunch of hooey when I read it, but research published in the British Medical Journal suggested that left-handed women may be at a greater risk for developing breast cancer.

"While some case-control studies have shown a relationship between
left-handedness and increased breast cancer risk, there has so far not been any prospective data."


Good thing I'm right handed.

Monday, September 19, 2005

Lucky Me

I must have the cutest, most adorable kids in the whole world. They melt my heart. I love being a teacher.

Thursday, September 08, 2005

10-month-old baby stabbed in stroller in NYC

Toddler stable; man with history of mental problems detained after attack

NEW YORK - A knife-wielding man stabbed a 10-month-old baby in her stroller, critically injuring her, police said.
Isabelle Avins was rushed to a hospital where she underwent surgery Wednesday night. She was listed in critical but stable condition, police spokesman Detective Brian Sessa said.
At the family’s request, the hospital on Thursday declined to provide further details.

The nanny was walking with the baby around 5 p.m. when the man approached them a short distance from the girl’s home, Sessa said.

“He just came out of nowhere,” witness Hennessy Arias told the New York Post in Thursday’s editions. “The baby was hysterical, crying. ... She was crying and trying to gag for air.”

The nanny, identified only as a 20-year-old woman, screamed for help and cradled the baby.

Isabelle’s father, Jon Avins, also praised the nanny.

“The babysitter saved her life,” he told reporters outside the family’s apartment building. “She’s like a member of our family.”

Bernard Derr, 48, a man with a history of psychiatric problems, was taken into custody a short time after the attack and held on attempted murder and other charges, police said.

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Books I've Read This Summer

(Starting with the most recently read)

  • Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling
  • The Horse Whisperer by Nicholas Evans
  • Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom
  • Angels & Demons by Dan Brown
  • The Catcher In The Rye by J.D. Salinger

Ok, only 5 books...but that's not too bad!

Harry Potter Is My Hero

Ok, just finished Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince. Wow! It was good! Not saying any more, as I don't want to give it away to anyone who is reading it or plans to read it in the future. And if you're not planning on reading it, you'd better change your plans! Because you're missing out!

Monday, August 15, 2005

One Step Closer

I watched Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets today. Good movie. Not as good as the book, but very accurate (to me the book just always seems better!)

Friday, August 12, 2005

The Last Of My Vacation

Summer vacation is almost over for me, but I'm going to clutch to it desperately until I have to be dragged back to work.

Honestly, though, I do love my job. I get to spend all day with the cutest little kids in the world...and I get paid to do it!

But I do like my summers.

There's a minor league baseball team here, and my boyfriend works at the stadium as an usher. He's going to work in just a few minutes, but I'm going to go to the game tonight and pay him a little visit. :) I like baseball, and they're doing fireworks after tonight's game, so this is a good time to go.

The season's going to be over soon though, and he needs to get another job...desperately. He just dropped out of law school, and I have no idea how he's paying his bills.

Did you ever see the Will & Grace episode last season where Will's boyfriend Vince lost his job and was moping around all the time, leaching onto Will? My boyfriend is my Vince. Poor guy.

I think I know how to cheer him up. ;)

Monday, August 08, 2005

Hello Blogger

This will be a continuation of my old journal, which can be read by clicking this link.